In theory, the bar is a fertile ground to find babes. On any given Friday night, you’ll spot a beautiful woman blowing off steam after a tough work week, or catching up with friends over a couple of strong cocktails. In practice, however, picking up women at pubs and clubs is a far trickier feat. She’s there to relax and let loose—not listen to some guy try to sound suave while fumbling with his pint glass.
But it all starts with your approach.
#10. Do Relax. Stop worrying about what I might think of you. I’ll probably like you a lot better and give you more time if you come over and talk to me naturally rather than using a line or nervously talking crap. Women can tell if a guy is confident or sh*tting his pants. Try thinking of something funny as you walk over so it isn’t some creepy “I’m confident” smile.